
Educators' Toolkit
This toolkit provides practical, trauma‑informed resources for teachers, SENCOs, pastoral staff, attendance leads, safeguarding teams, and school leaders responding to School Refusal.
1. SENCO Checklist – First Response
- Log parental report of anxiety immediately
- Review history of wellbeing and past incidents
- Check for SEND concerns (SEMH, ASD, ADHD, trauma)
- Arrange meeting with parent within 5–10 school days
- Identify early reasonable adjustments
- Ensure absence is coded as Illness (Code I)
- Begin a graduated response (Assess–Plan–Do–Review)
2. Staff Briefing Sheet – Key Information for All Staff
- School Refusal is driven by anxiety, not behaviour
- Pressure increases symptoms
- Never use physical prompting, guiding, lifting, or force
- Use calm tone, predictable routines, and reassurance
- Allow breaks, safe spaces, and reduced sensory demands
- A trusted adult should act as the child's safe connection
3. Mental Health Safety Plan Template
To be completed with parent + SENCO + trusted adult
- Triggers: ____________________________
- Early warning signs: __________________
- What helps calm the child: _____________
- Safe space: ___________________________
- Trusted adult: _________________________
- Steps for staff during distress: _________
4. Reintegration Plan Template
- Start with what the child can manage (even 5 minutes)
- Gradual increase based on child’s readiness
- Flexible timetable to reduce overwhelm
- Build predictable routines
- Daily wellbeing check‑ins
- Weekly review with parent
5. Anxiety Profile Template
- Main sources of anxiety: ________________
- Situations that increase distress: ______
- Situations the child can cope with: _____
- What the child needs from adults: ______
- Sensory sensitivities: _________________
6. Attendance Coding Guidance
- Code I – Illness: Use for mental health‑related absence
- Code C – Authorised absence: Parent‑led temporary arrangements
- Do NOT use Code O for School Refusal (not a behaviour issue)
- Code D/F: Use for part‑time timetables or off‑site education
7. Trauma‑Informed Practice – Do / Do Not
Do:
- Prioritise emotional safety before attendance
- Use co‑regulation
- Keep language calm, slow, and predictable
- Offer choices to reduce the feeling of threat
- Listen closely to parent observations
Do Not:
- Threaten sanctions or fines
- Use physical prompting or persuasion
- Force separation from parent during distress
- Apply behaviour policies rigidly
- Dismiss reported symptoms as avoidance
8. Quick Response Guide – SRSS Letters
- Letter 1: Log & notify SENCO
- Letter 3: Pause escalation
- Letter 6: Contact LA for Section 19
- Letter 11: Correct attendance coding
- Letter 12: Investigate harmful practice
- Letter 13: Stop physical prompting
- Letter 14: Create Safety Plan
